Just as many professionals buy into a myth that ‘since we are all professionals, there are no cultural differences,’ many international students or even corporate learners and trainers working across cultures may believe that learning and teaching or facilitating has a global flavor. I can tell you from the experience of being a US expat who has worked, lived, studied, and delivered corporate training there certainly IS a cross-cultural approach to learning and teaching that needs to be considered when learning and teaching across cultures.
“What does Freedom mean to you?”
This was the first topic I was asked to weigh in on during the first few hours of studying at Madras Christian College. As the only American and foreigner in a class of South Indians, this exercise was both a culture shock and an initiation. From my US cultural lens, it appeared Indians students were hesitant to share their opinions. Rather than share their own opinions, they would wait, ask the teacher some indirect questions about the topic, and then discuss their thoughts on his answers or opinions. Any students brave enough to share contrary opinions to the teacher were immediately hushed by fellow classmates out of respect for the teacher.
This environment seemed restrictive to me; the exact opposite of the discussion topic freedom! As a comparison, this was surely not how I would have experienced the same group discussion in the US. In the US, students would not ask the teacher’s opinion before sharing their own. If a student shared an opinion, which differed from the teacher, the student would not be hushed and the teacher not disrespected. In many cases, there would be a healthy conversation or even debate on differences of opinion.
This was only one aspect of the flood of cultural differences I encountered in the educational setting in India. In order to be successful, pass and earn First Class marks, I was forced to make many changes in mindset and behavior. Some of these changes came naturally, while others were forced out of necessity.
I returned to Kochi, Kerala (South India) in 2011 to start Authentic Journeys, a consultancy providing services to IT professionals’ working with US Americans to help bridge the cultural gap. While my experiences as a student in India provided fertile training ground for some of the cross-cultural expectations, there is nothing like real life, in the moment experience to humble us.
Rather than highlight the lessons from my role as a student, this article will highlight cultural differences faced while standing on the other side of the desk – in a teaching role. I will share how relationship building, the importance of facilitation to enhance group learning, and the art of addressing mistakes in a public forum are key elements in building a strong track record as foreign trainer in India.

Author, Jennifer Kumar, delivering corporate training in India
A Cross-Cultural Approach to Learning and Teaching: Relationship Building
Starting with one’s “good name,” typical south Indian introductions detail one’s family background, including “native place” (hometown), spouse’s and immediate family member’s names and positions, parent’s current town and professional or educational qualifications, and if time permits, personal educational and professional qualifications and, in some cases, hobbies. In my case, as I am married to an Indian, and an Indian who is originally from the same town I work in, many find this to be a curious and intriguing fact about me. This curious fact often breaks ice and builds bridges in a climate where many in the training floor may feel they have nothing in common with me.
Many Americans many wonder how I justify this kind of introduction. I surely wouldn’t use this introduction in the US, so why do I do it in India? It is out of necessity. It is out of finding success in discomfort. In my experience, I can confidently say that higher engagement levels are equally proportionate to the relatability or likability of the trainer or coach. While some may argue that local trainers do not have to do this, keep in mind that I am a foreigner. I am an outsider. People will approach me very differently than a local person that they more readily find a common thread with.

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Last, but never least, celebrating joyous occasions with others, showing dedication and care and apologizing appropriately when required go a long way in building relationships in and out of the training room. While food is universally used to celebrate, food can also be used to say ‘I’m sorry’ when the words get in the way. In India, I have learnt an art of apologizing without words. It is not easy. This is one of the cultural differences I quite like. In one situation, I was alerted to a social gaffe I committed. I was so embarrassed and knew that saying, “I’m sorry” would not communicate my true feelings. Instead, the next day, I purchased a big cake and salty snacks. Before sharing them with the group, I shared with them how much I cared about them and wanted to see all of them succeed. They all looked at me with an immediate look of understanding. They knew I was apologizing for my mistake, and they were happy to accept my peace offering. I also know this worked because while partaking in the food, on this third day of training, everyone came to me and held lively conversations with me. It was an amazing experience.
Tied to this is sharing with groups my emotional connection to their success. There have been a few sessions where emotions ran high due to the urgency of the trainees absorbing and applying the information. Because I also felt their discomfort and nervousness about adapting to these new mindsets and behaviors, I temporarily stopped the session and shared, “I know this is all new to you. If I were you, I’d also feel overwhelmed and confused now. I am here to help you to succeed. Your success is my success. I share in your success and your struggles. I care about you. I care about your success. If you have any questions do not hesitate to ask them so I can help you to understand this better.” In a few cases when I shared this, I actually started tearing up. I would never get so dramatic or emotional in an American training room. Though this emotionality was never planned, I felt Indians connect to this emotion in a way that motivates them to take more responsibility for positive outcomes.
Facilitation is toted as a key element of successful training programs across the board. Facilitation has more successful outcomes than lecture for the three key reasons below.
Unlike hard skills training which already has a reference point, many participants may not have any previous experience with the soft-skills or cross-cultural modules presented. Facilitation allows the participants to explore the material in a deeper, more relevant way than they have been able to do in most traditional educational experiences.

Lewis Model of Cross-Cultural Interaction as Portrayed by Training Participants
Many Indians prefer to share their experiences as a group. I have noticed that many participants are comfortable speaking up about topics that others have already spoken about, rather than talking about something unchartered. (This piggy backs the story told at the opening of this article.) Instead of feeling others will appreciate their boldness in discussing unfamiliar topics, many in the training programs seem to approach sharing unfamiliar stories with hesitation and a sense that they may be unfairly judged for talking about things they are not 100% certain about. So, when teaching new concepts or having them test their knowledge, I would break the class into groups for discussion, activities and even competitions. The picture above is of the Lewis Model of Cross Cultural Communication. To help demonstrate the cultural gaps on their virtual teams, I had teams create the model from candies, labeling their team’s international representations as seen in the image above. After making the model, we discussed the gaps, and ate the candy!


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Couple fluency challenges with the delivery of new and unfamiliar topics and possible confidence issues in speaking up in English with their peers (and the first native speaker, foreigner they have met), and it is not hard to understand why session facilitation can take longer than it would for those already fluent in a language.

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Breaking lectures into bite-size chunks helps to solve two problems: improving concentration and reducing tiredness and boredom. Studies prove humans have an attention span of 10-15 minutes. Couple this with listening to someone speaking in a foreign language or accent, and having to translate what they say in your head into your native language, and the concentration factor proportionally rises with the exhaustion factor at a higher rate. In addition to helping the participants maintain focus, offering less information through lecture and more through written materials and group discussion gives the participants a chance to discuss the concepts and learn from each other. Initially, I was quite nervous about this method of facilitation, thinking my instructions or lecture would be too vague and not give the participants all of the information they needed. I can confidently say that the participants always exceed my expectation. The main reason for this is unlike Americans, Indians are much more comfortable with a lack of process, step-by-step instructions and vagueness. Because of this, group discussions on the concepts coupled with interaction with the facilitator in small groups to discuss concepts and answer questions have led to much more successful outcomes.
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Often, the best cross-cultural lessons come from in-the-moment interactions. This article strived to highlight this throughout. While it is important to intellectually understand the cultural differences, internalizing them and creating new behavioral outcomes is an uncomfortable proposition. The training room provides a safe space for participants to practice. And, as the facilitator, I help each participant to achieve their own success through my own unique blend of relationship building, group learning through facilitation and mistake identification and correction.
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Cover image: Author, Jennifer Kumar, going for field work in Chennai as part of her Master’s in Social Work program.
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