Quite literally, perhaps words just got in the way of really clear communication. If you really want to get people to quite literally do really amazing things, it’s better to be really, very clear about the stuff that you talk about!
The above opening stuffs all of the words that author Shanna Mallon suggests not to use or avoid to the greatest extent to pack more punch in your communication. I would agree with her.
To answer that, let’s take another look at the sentence that opened this article:
Quite literally, perhaps words just got in the way of really clear communication. If you really want to get people to quite literally do really amazing things, it’s better to be really, very clear about the stuff that you talk about!
The words just got in the way of clear communication. If you want to get people to do amazing things, it’s better to be clear about what you want to talk about.
Notice any differences?
Firstly, the updated sentence is shorter.
Secondly, the message is clearer and crisper.
Notice anything else?
Some may have noticed that the word “amazing” was not removed. Can you guess why?
In this case, the two words “amazing things” were not used as filler words. However, we can improve this by selecting more descriptive words that fit the situation, such as, “If you want to prepare your staff to chair the client meeting on a regular basis to free up your schedule….”
In this update, I also removed and replaced the word “get.” In most cases, I suggest professionals to remove forms of “get” from their vocabulary in formal situations as much as possible. Notice how the word “prepare” sounds as compared to “get?”
Also keep in mind there will be cases that filler words are actually content words. One way to distinguish between a filler word and a content word is if the word actually has a meaning in that context, it’s probably a content word. If that word is being used often, maybe where commas would normally go in a sentence or a period (full stop) to combine sentences (creating grammatically incorrect sentences), then that word is probably being used as a filler word.
What are common filler words?
The word list below has been compiled through our experience coaching professionals using English as a second or other language from over twenty or so countries (and are also common among American English native speakers):
Typically, filler words are more of a problem with those I coach in conversation or spoken English and not in written English. If this is you, I recommend that you record yourself talking to your counterparts, listen back later and note down filler words and tick off how many times you say certain filler words. It will surprise you. Or, maybe it won’t.
Then, after listening and noting the words, make a transcript of what you said. Then, edit out the filler words, like I did above. Notice any differences in the communication?
What strategies can you apply to move from the use of filler words to a reduction or elimination of filler words?
The ones listed in the beginning of the article are some I have noticed. However, when thinking about the clients we work with through Authentic Journeys, some common filler words are: basically, um, right, then, you know, like, so, ok, yes, and others.
In some cases, especially with the words: ok, yes, and then (“then” is especially problematic for some Tamil speakers of English), these words are being used as a listening cue. However, when interacting with US citizens who speak English, it’s wise to keep in mind that using ‘ok’ or ‘yes’ as a listening cue could be misunderstood as agreement or commitment to something (a new timeline, additional tasks that you did not expect to do, etc.).
Another mistake many I coach make is talking (and sometimes, writing) in really long sentences. While, oftentimes, these sentences not only have many filler words that could be removed to create a crisper message, these sentences also could be broken down into shorter, crisper sentences by removing the conjunction and saying the statements as separate sentences, assuring that when you speak, there is a clear pause where the period (full stop) would be.
How can you identify the conjunctions in a sentence? Take a look at this handy “FANBOYS” co-ordinating conjunctions chart below. If you speak or write in long sentences where any of these words are used, try to remove the co-ordinating conjunction and restate or rewrite as two separate sentences.
Today I was just talking with Matt, he just told me we have to prepone the demo for the current sprint by 3 days but I just feel that by doing this we quite literally will not have enough time to complete the login page with all the features we just finalized in the last sprint.
What do you notice?
Before we update this utterance, take a moment and read it out loud. What do you think after hearing it?
Before I share an update of this utterance, take a moment to write it out on your paper and try to re-write it.
Original:
“Today I was just talking with Matt, an he just told me we have to prepone the demo for the current sprint by 3 days but I just feel that by doing this we quite literally will not have enough time to complete the login page with all the features we just finalized in the last sprint.”
Update:
“Today I was talking with Matt. He let me know that we need to move up the date for the demo for the current sprint by 3 days. I feel by doing that, we will not have enough time to complete the login page with all the features we recently finalized in the last sprint.”
I changed “talked to” to “talked with.” Can you guess why? “To” is more directive and one-way communication, where as “with” is two-way and collaborative.
One of the FANBOYS removed was “but.” In many cases, especially with US Americans whatever words follow “but,” the listener will take it in a negative way (which is not always the case in India). Read more about why we should avoid using BUT here.
Jennifer Kumar helps global professionals present with ease and confidence in English with US counterparts. We focus on overall leadership skills to uplevel your communication including how to organize your presentations, meeting discussion points, demos or any other types of presentations you need to deliver. We help you from the ideation stage, to organizing content (scripts, visuals, body language and spoken language), to perfecting your delivery through coaching and strategy sessions. Take a look at our programs here, or get in touch with us today.
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Original post date: 6/15, Updated 5/2020, 4/2022
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